Inspiration Found in The Most Remote Places

Spending time in small town America, coming from New York, I believe I took some things for granted. Lately, I have been getting to know a side of the country that I don’t believe many people see, and what they think they know, often tends to be stereotypes derived from pop culture and media. Sure, some of that exists, no doubt, but for the most part people are people. Big City people have big city issues; small town people have small town issues. Yet as human beings, we all share similar desires, perhaps to live and love, hope and dream, grow and prosper. From the City, I tend to think and move fast; surely many of us like to drive fast, but certainly there is a more laid back attitude down South. Within any group of people there is political posturing, social cliques, and both, energetic and lazy people.

Depeche Mode, the 1980s synthesized music band, or new wave group, had a song, “People are People so why should it be, you and I should get along so awfully.” Now, I admit that I liked the song back then, but my love has been and always will be real rock, I’m usually not into the synthesized Euro stuff, yet the song which I can sing by heart has some truth. Whether it small town USA, or in my City, people are people; different methods, different foods, but not so different, really.

It’s taken some time to realize this, yet I am learning fast. Through my travels across the “Bible Belt,” and even more now working within a Christian ministry, I have come to know more than I did from my ivory tower in New York. Perception might be reality, but reality is all too often distorted to create an unfair perception.

As a Jewish New Yorker, I learned to be tougher and more wary of an unfriendly world out there. Reading and watching news on Israel is a painful example of how Jews are perceived worldwide.  Watching financial scandals across the country and seeing Jewish names attached generated a flurry of anti-Semitic rants in emails, cyberspace and even in small towns across the USA.  I imagined what my reception would be like in this small country city, and was nervous about how people, many of whom have never really personally known someone of Jewish faith, would receive me.

Now, I had my first direct experience working for evangelical pastor and Christian Zionist John Hagee. I found, for a national figure, he is down to earth and friendly, warm and caring, and just a nice person. Without even getting to into his beliefs, of which I spent so much time understanding and even defending as his PR agent, as a person, he is a decent guy. Quite a change from other public personalities; has anyone heard the Christian Bale recordings, or remember Russell Crowe‘s tirade?

Now, fully immersed in the world of a Christian Ministry, I see a lot more, learn a lot more and have been inspired. People here pray more than I see people do, and t hey truly believe with a faith many of my own could use. Yet more, they live the way they believe. Caring, decent and loving; it defines southern hospitality.

Last week, I had the pleasure of hearing a sermon about living life right, respecting one’s parents and being the best you could be. The pastor spoke of her inspiration and where she learned life’s important lessons: we all needed to be tolerant of others, to be thoughtful to the people you meet on the way up through life, and that we are all replaceable, and should therefore should avoid pretentiousness. Those pearls came from a close Jewish friend of hers. The Pastor proudly attributed those teachings to Jewish values (and they very well should be), and proclaimed such to her flock. It made me happy to hear.

What brought it home for me was just today, in her home, she showed me a book that she reads regularly for inspiration – The Artscroll book on the Chofetz Chaim, “A lesson a Day“. After my stereotypes had been shattered, realizing that not all people speak badly of others and not everyone hates for hate’s sake, I opened her book to find that my Christian Pastor friend, who I have come to respect in every way, had underlined passages forbidding Sinat Chinam (Baseless Hatred) and Lashon Hora (Gossiping and Evil Talk).

I guess what I really learned is that I still have so much to learn, and I think to myself, what a wonderful world this would be if we all learned those very lessons this pastor is proud to study.

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4 responses to “Inspiration Found in The Most Remote Places

  1. Hi juda this is very warm and thoughtful piece. I’m fascinated by your career change and I’d love to hear more about what lead you down this path.

  2. moshe shiloh

    “Reading and watching news on Israel is a painful example of how Jews are perceived worldwide; watching financial scandals across the country and seeing Jewish names attached, generated a flurry of anti-Semitic rants in emails and cyberspace.” I am not sure but it seems that you are comparing Israel with Jews invoved in financial scandals, meaning that Israel stains the image of Jews.

    • Juda Engelmayer

      Moshe,
      I think you read this wrong. My point was that there is a global perception of Jews that is not good – whether it is Israel or business dealings. As for the implication that Israel stains the image of Jews, that is a harsh thing to say, and it is something I would never say or wish to believe. However, to choose to believe that anti-Israel sentiment worldwide is not latent ant-Semitism, is to stick your head in the sand and buy into radical Islamic propaganda that their animus toward Israel is merely a land and territory dispute, with the added “Jews are acting like the Nazis (which they also say never really happened)” sentiment and not a hatred for Jews. I am not sure you are saying that.

      Anti-Israel is anti Jewish in most cases, and it is hard to convince me otherwise – even when coming from leftists Jews decrying a fallacious “land grab” in ’67, discounting that she was attacked on all sides, defended herself and now seeks to protect its paper thin borders that rockets still blast through.

  3. Casey Barts

    So true, that yes we are different in so many ways, yet in truth we are just people and that makes us more alike than we actually know. We all love, laugh, hurt, and strive to get by and do the best we possibly can for ourselves and our families. Whether from the deep south or the far north, regardless of race, creed, religion, or nationality, one thing that many people over look is that we are all created in the image of our heavenly father, now that is a tie that binds! A bit over due but, welcome, I am glad you are here!

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